No woman wants to feel
that the man watching her from across the room sees a collection of body parts
rather than a fully formed human.
Feminists have asserted all along that objectifying women is unhealthy, base and unappealing.
Perhaps it's because objectification seems so akin to dehumanization. What if a
man's idea of women as mere tools for sexual gratification makes him
physically and emotionally manipulative, aggressive or otherwise coercive? One
recent study seems to be connecting the dots, so to speak.
The new research, published in Psychology of Women
Quarterly, discovered that more objectification of a female partner's body is related
to more incidents of sexual pressure and coercion in romantic relationships —
an important area of inquiry, given the heartbreaking toll of intimate partner sexual violence in
the United States. Psychologists Laura R. Ramsey and Tiffany Hoyt spoke to 119
males and 162 females for the study. "Men who frequently objectify their
partner's bodies by excessively focusing on their appearance are more likely to
feel shame about the shape and size of their partner's body," they write,
"which in turn is related to increased sexual pressure and sexual coercion, both in general and through violence and
manipulation."
One common excuse for the objectifying gaze is that men in particular
are wired to do so, that some part
of their brains can't help
themselves. Unfortunately, it's not simply a male issue; one 2012 study found
that both men and women tend to look at women in the same way they look
at houses or sandwiches — not as a whole, but as
a composite of separate attractive parts. In advertising, magazines, television
shows, movies, video
games, music videos, television news and
'reality" television.'" In short,
despite the best efforts of gender-equality advocates, objectification is still
very much widespread.
The first step, it seems, may be self-awareness.
"Acknowledging objectification in their relationships may help women
realize when they lack agency and allow them to resist and avoid sexual pressure,"
Ramsey and Hoyt write. "Furthermore, thinking about objectification in
terms of agency and sexual pressure could also have implications for women's
relationship satisfaction, both sexual and otherwise. Women who feel that they
have no control and who experience sexual pressure from their partner will not
be as satisfied as women who feel like they have control over their body and
the decisions in the relationship."
The
moral here is that women need to understand that being in a romantic
relationship with someone does not mean that person gets to dehumanize or disempowered
them — just as objectifying men need to
wise up to ladies' humanity too
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