It is frightening how deep
objectification of women really goes. We must certainly combat sexual
objectification. However, women are objectified in more profound ways than we
realize, and we must tear down every entangled shred of patriarchy,
in order to achieve our goal of being recognized as “women” and not mere
“objects”.
It has been pointed out by some
feminist thinkers that women in our society are more identified and associated
with their bodies than are men, and, to a greater extent than men, they are
valued for how they look .In order to gain social acceptability, women are
under constant pressure to correct their bodies and appearance more generally,
and make them conform to the ideals of feminine appearance of their time, the
so-called ‘norms of feminine appearance’ (the standards of appearance women
feel they should be living up to) .
Some feminists have argued
that, in being preoccupied with their looks, women treat themselves as things
to be decorated and gazed upon.
In being infatuated with their bodily
beings, women learn to see and treat themselves as objects to be gazed at and
decorated, they learn to see themselves as though from the outside.
People claim that it is the media
and advertisements who are to be blamed. But, I believe, that both the media
and the society are to be equally blamed for this stereotypical portrayal. It
is us who are to be blamed, because, we have readily accepted and appreciated
what media has been offering. Had we not accepted it and voiced our dissent,
they would not have continued to do so. We call ourselves a modern society but
we still are way behind when we see such practices being appreciated.

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